As January draws to a close, I am reminded once again by how swift time passes. Seated in a cozy café near our home on a lazy Saturday afternoon, my gaze fixates on the cup of coffee before me. It’s adorned with words: The best is yet to come.
In my mind, a retort: “Sure, hope so…” as my thoughts linger on the uncertainties that lie ahead.
Can I make the most of this year, or am I resigned to whatever unfolds?
I felt somewhat defeated by my failures and unmet goals from the previous year. Still, the words on the cup provide a subtle reminder that all is well. It’s a comforting thought, suggesting everything is okay amidst the disappointments.
Many welcomed the year with a bunch of resolutions and are all about “new year, new me”. I find myself yearning for the good ol’ carefree version of myself. A recent visit to my hometown unearthed a pile of nostalgia. I found old keepsakes tucked away in my study’s drawer. Before smartphones captured everything in snapshots, I kept tangible tokens of love and special memories. Looking at them, I caught a glimpse of my old, sentimental self.
The past few years were all about chasing success and achievements, fueled by the “hustle culture.” The pursuit of “more” overshadowed the simplicity of everyday moments. In 2024, my resolution is to strike a balance. I want to pursue my dreams while also appreciating the present. I have seen the need to prioritize my health more, especially during the peak of the pandemic. The countless stories of unrealized dreams due to illness have shifted my perspective on success. I’ve come to grasp the truth that health is, indeed, the ultimate wealth. Without it, nothing else means anything. Thus, I’ve taken a step back and promised not to push myself too hard. We should dedicate this year to taking more pauses and slowing down. My goal now is to live in the moment, find joy in the small things, and to be grateful for the everyday.
My focus shifts from the destination to the journey itself. Each small victory is a cause of celebration, and every stumble is an opportunity for growth.
Despite the setbacks in reaching for our dreams, let us resolve not to lose heart. Embrace the uncertainties ahead.
The best is yet to come.